Greeting Card Etiquette - The Ins and Outs

Believe it or not, when you send out a greeting card,you know enough about the recipient to avoid
there are certain rules of etiquette to follow. Sure, youraccidentally being offensive. This can be tricky when
close friends and family won't begrudge you if yousending out greeting cards to business associates, and
don't follow every single etiquette rule. Nonetheless, ifthe time you spend to ensure that the greeting is
you want to impress the recipient, or if you are sendingappropriate is very important. For example, you may
out a greeting card to a business associate, there areoffend a client if you send a Christmas card to one
certain rules of etiquette to keep in mind.who is of a religion that does not celebrate the holiday.
Keep It PersonalTherefore, you can individualize your greetings or you
Although technology has made it easier to print offcan send out greeting cards that would not be
mailing labels in a matter of minutes, it really is best tooffensive to any particular group. In the case of
handwrite the addresses on your envelope. If you useChristmas cards, for example, you might send out
mailing labels, it takes out the personal touchcards that simply wish "Happy Holidays" rather than
associated with greeting cards and makes it look likespecifying one religion.
you sent out hundreds of impersonal greetings toAddress the Envelope Properly
everyone you know. While this may not be far fromIdeally, you should send your greeting cards to the
the truth -- particularly if you are sending out greetinghome of the recipient, even if the person is a business
cards to business associates -- you certainly don'tassociate. If you don't have the home address, sending
want to send this message along with your greetings.the greeting to the place of business is acceptable; just
If you have more greeting cards than you can handlebe certain to keep it as personal as possible.
personally, you might want to consider hiring someoneWhen sending a greeting card to a business
to personally handwrite them for you.associate's home, the spouse of the associate should
The personalization of your greetings also extends toalso be mentioned. It's okay if you don't know the
the card itself. While you may have your businessname of the wife if your business associate is male,
information printed on the inside of your card, youbecause you can address the envelope with a "Mr.
definitely should sign the card yourself. Writing a shortand Mrs. John Doe." If the business associate is female,
message inside will also further the impact of yourhowever, you will need to find out the name of her
greeting card. Just a few words is enough; somethinghusband so you can address the greeting card
as simple as, "Wishing you the very best," will suffice.properly.
You will be amazed at just how far a short messageIf one or both of the recipients is a doctor, there are
such as this can go toward strengthening relationshipsadditional rules of etiquette to follow. If both are
-- whether it's a personal or business relationship.doctors, the envelope should be addressed with "The
Finally, be mindful of e-greetings, as these have tooDoctors Doe." If they have different last names,
little personal impact, if at all. This is particularly true withhowever, the proper way to start the address is with
business associates. E-greetings simply do not make"Dr. John Doe and Dr. Jane Smith." If only the husband
the same impact as paper greetings and, in fact, mayis a doctor, the envelope is addressed with "Dr. and
even be offensive to some clients. AlthoughMrs. John Doe." If the wife is a doctor and the husband
e-greetings can be fun and are simple to send, theseis not, the proper label is "Mr. John Doe and Dr. Jane
greetings should be used only with your closest friendsDoe."
and family. Even then, proper etiquette dictates sendingFollowing proper greeting card etiquette can seem
a paper greeting for major events, such as holidays,confusing at first, but adhering to a few simple rules will
birthdays, and anniversaries.help you make your recipients feel truly special every
Know the Recipienttime one of your greeting cards arrives in the mail.
When sending out greeting cards, it is important that